Are you a Pessimist or Optimist?

If any person is saying, the following 7 things, the person is pessimistic. Try to understand yourself. Would you say you are more of a “glass is half-full” or a “glass is half-empty” type of person?

I will do it tomorrow

If you are saying this because it’s outside your comfort zone or you're nervous or stressed, or you don't know where to start, or you are feeling lazy. So do the things in time.

I do not have time

You are saying this because you don’t want to do it. There’s no right or wrong way to manage your time effectively, but you need to clearly identify how you’re spending your hours so you can eliminate time-wasting the thing you are doing in the day. When you recognize it, you’ll understand you’re not as busy as you thought.  

It is your fault, not mine

Being blamed for something that isn’t your fault can be an annoying and really dangerous situation. Blame another person can make you look like you aren’t a team player or like you are purposefully escaping from the responsibility to save yourself. To get out of this situation you have to make sure that you will not do anything wrong and avoid mistakes in the future to make yourself perfect.

I am not lucky

Always saying that I am not lucky is meaningless. If you have to be a bit of luck in your life you have to work hard. None of us is lucky all of the time, but there is no doubt that some people are luckier than others. You might say, it's not fair. The truth is that lucky people aren't lucky by accident. They're lucky because of the attitude they bring to their life. An attitude that accepts bad luck as inevitable but good luck as something we create by absolute hard work, courage, and confidence.

My time is not good

You are feeling like that because you have had people be disappointed with you when you've said no. Maybe you feel guilty because you really want to help others but you can’t.  There's absolutely nothing wrong with saying no when you need to reduce stress levels and wants to do something really important. Remember that you have 24 hrs in a day and all these 24 hrs is not good for you. Give Yourself Time.

I cannot trust anyone

When you do not trust others, you are afraid yourself of human connection and trustworthy living. This may be because you are not feeling safe in sharing your hopes, dreams, or difficulties with anyone anymore. At a deeper level, this lack of trust in others represents an immature ego that is coming out of you due to stress in your life. Then, when you’re all alone, you can continue to blame life for being so worthless.

They are making money, not in the right way

If you are saying that, “they are making money not in the right way” because you are fed up with your expense which is overflowing from your constant income level. But do remember that if you are spending the money in the right way you can also make money in the right way. Try to fix an economical budget and definitely you will get money as you want.

Success in our life does not depend on money.  many people with a lot of money are leading horrible life than the poor people. Don't confuse with the minor thing happening in your life, it’ll lead you to major things in your life.

Your success in your life is balancing the few essential things like spiritual, relational, financial, physical condition. The more successful you become, the less stress you have.

Be optimistic and make your choices according to your personality. Definitely, you will win.  If you have thrust and balance in you, you’re being who you truly want to be, every single day.